THE ART OF RELATING
I call relating an ART form as you have built patterns based on how and where you have lived. Self, family, culture, society, religion, and money.. to name a few of the influences that have shaped your ability to relate.
You have built habits to support yourself, based your own beliefs, values, ethics, moral and principles. Those patterns may have been repeated everyday of your life, or, may have been changed many times as you shaped yourself into the person you are today.
You have also have created and shaped your own communication skills and with the many experiences, talents and areas of knowledge you have studied.
Amazing to consider that you have built a life based on practices, habits and patterns shown, taught and chosen.. maybe without realising the affects that would have in the future. You may have never realised that those patterns could be changed and/or removed to allow more growth and flexibility in the awareness of who you really are and therefore how you live.
As Light Beings, you are growing out of all negative forms of relating to self and others especially with the OLD Pain, Blame, Shame and the Weight of all of that. It is so much easier to live the freedom and the joy of who you are...Love and Light - you have the ability to choose in any moment.
Light Beings do not need to HOLD or WEAR any ethics, values, beliefs, morals or principals.. You have a deep knowing of who you are! You live in the flow of your Light Being channel/energy.
Nothing 'sticks' when there are no mental and emotional blockages held in any negative form. You do not continue to hold attitudes and judgement of anyone. What you can do, more and more, is that when people speak you stop, respect and listen only. YOU DO NOT THINK.. you listen, and appreciate what has been said. You allow yourself to review your own knowing and truth 'in that situation' and choose to agree, or offer a different view. Others do not have to agree.
You respect who people are....they have their own 'story'. Their story is not your story. Practise being you in all conversations. No need to hide. No need to fight. Allow yourself to be and live who you are.
You can choose to live your own Pure Truth and honour that....AND it does not always need to be spoken. Look at how 'that' supports you or not. Then you can make a choice. Change how you have 'seen things', and then choose to respond in your way.
You are living your truth and how you choose to share it.
The generations born during and after World Wars 1 & 2 were taught how to 'Care for Others' without realising that they used their own body energy to 'carry their family members /friends who had been involved in different aspects of war and the issues of those family members and friends'.
That became an issue for the following three generations.. showing in the way people had developed physical problems for the shoulders, hips, knees and feet. The weight bearing lines of the body could not carry, and could not manage the damage being consistently increased by the repeated daily patterns of caring and carrying.
This has been a 'mission' of mine in my work - teaching people how to understand (and clear/remove) what they were carrying in the negative, now listening to the body and making changes, loving their own self.
Love allows you to choose what you wish to do, to support the needs being shown by any situation or person. This became another problem for those who cared and carried - they wore the weight of their own mental and emotional energies - so much weight for the physical body to manage. The body could not and cannot do that without showing increased weaknesses in, and to, the muscular/skeletal body.
Thankfully the younger generations do not tend to do this. They have had to find and develop their own pathways and have the freedom to do that.
Your conversations change and open when you are not living through the OLD, the past and/or the negative. When there is no negative, there is no need for positive and persuasive language to put a person in a happier place. All is in its own truth and easy to live. This opens people to being more creative.. without having to be 'right'. So, the conversations change to include great awareness and knowing.
You expand the present moment.
This expands to create a future.
Be yourself in every moment. Love who you are, and who you have become.
You are amazing - know that!